Why this book?

I have been the webmaster of No-porn.com since 1997. To commemorate this website's tenth anniversary, I was urged to write a book that outlined what had been most helpful in my own recovery from pornography. The result was “Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction.”

“Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction” outlines the ten principles that I believe are most helpful in overcoming addiction to pornography. Today, “Ten Keys” helps thousands of men and women understand how their addiction works, how it controls them, and how they can reclaim their lives. It has helped the newcomer just starting to admit that porn is a problem, and the guy who has struggled for years to stop but is convinced that nothing will ever work. It has also helped wives and partners who are trying to better understand their loved one’s hurtful behavior.

I get emails almost daily praising the book:

• “I will read it again and again.”
• “You have given me some great new ideas.”
• “It really helps me keep focused.”
• “I cannot thank you enough.”
• “Very helpful.”
• “It gave me hope.”
• “I… have actually lost count of how long I have been free.”
• “I now have hope and direction.”

I have been overwhelmed by the response to “Ten Keys.” I’m not a trained therapist. I’m just a guy who spent almost my entire life struggling with an addiction that started because I was curious about sex when I was a child and my friend and I thought we could find the answers in his brother’s porn magazines. Not unlike millions of other kids around the world.

That set the stage for a nearly-life-long battle with an addiction to pornography. But in 1997 I started No-porn.com while I continued to struggle with my own compulsive desires and behavior. What started as a little web page grew into a thriving community of men and women supporting one another through the devastation of pornography addiction.

Somewhere in the process, I found sobriety and recovery.

It took me years to understand these very simple principles, but when you’re living in addiction, sometimes you just can’t figure it out on your own. “Ten Keys” provides clarity and some very simple techniques that have helped thousands to reach their recovery goals. It can do the same thing for you.

Many of us are so determined to figure it all out on our own. But I made absolutely no progress until I was willing to learn from others: from therapists, from other addicts and from books. “Ten Keys” encompasses many of the great teachings I’ve learned from people whom I now consider to be my recovery heroes. I received one Key from a brilliant author, another Key from a friend, another Key from a therapist, and so on. Soon I had my own “key ring” of ideas that unlocked the chains. They can help you find the freedom you seek as well.

This is not some magic formula that promises you’ll be sober by page 80. It is a map, but it is not the car. It can show you the way, but it can’t drive you there. However, it can help to prepare you for what is, frankly, a very challenging journey. Challenging, but rewarding. As someone who never uses pornography or masturbates now, I can honestly say, I had no idea how wonderful and happy a sober life could be.

I truly believe, and hundreds of emails and other private messages concur, this book provides hope, encouragement and clear steps that can help you win this battle.

You can purchase “Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction” by clicking here:

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Here are a few more things people have said about “Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction:”

“I read it on Thanksgiving Day. I was alone and feeling sorry for myself. But instead of acting out, I read 10 Keys. It was the single best thing I've read on staying sober. I also appreciated that the stories in the book were honest, but not triggering in any way (unlike some other books about porn addiction.) … I loved the sense of hope that pervaded the entire book. More than anything else, I need hope to fight this addiction…. This book is an invaluable resource for anyone in any stage of recovery from porn addiction.”

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"I want to express my appreciation for 'Ten Keys' as well. I have been in my recovery since June of '06, and while I have had some good periods of sobriety, I can look back and see I hit a wall. After my last slip, I was moved to download 'Ten Keys'. I had it read in two sittings; there were times it brought tears to my eyes. There, in writing, were thoughts and feelings I had but was never able to put into words. New ideas, new tools were opened to me. … Granted, I am still an addict, and I am working on 'only' 68 current days of sobriety. However, in those previous periods of sobriety, I did not have any outlook for success. Instead, I felt rather grim about future sobriety. After reading 'Ten Keys', though, I have gained hope in my fight. There is light at the end of this proverbial tunnel. As such, I really believe that we all can learn something from reading 'Ten Keys'. Download it; you will not be sorry."

What this book is not:

• It is not a trick to get you to order some bigger and more expensive “program.”

• It is not a magical guide that promises you'll be sober without any effort.

• While it does address religion in a very respectful way, it is not a religious book that proselytizes or tries to persuade you to change your personal feelings about faith.

As I’ve said, this isn’t a magic wand that makes all your problems go away. I do believe the principles for full and complete recovery are all here, but I can’t guarantee that every reader will apply the principles. However, here is what I can guarantee:

My guarantee:

Please read “Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction.” I fully believe you’ll find it worthwhile. If for any reason you are less than satisfied with “Ten Keys,” I will gladly refund your payment. All you have to do is send me an email at TenKeys@no-porn.com within 60 days of your purchase and request your refund. No questions asked.

Here’s what a couple of other readers have said about “Ten Keys:”

"I thought I was going to go crazy until I read this. Wes I don't know what to say, except thank you."

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"I am from South Africa and am here in the States on holiday with my family. My wife and kids went to Universal Studios today (Christmas day) and I stayed behind because of tension between my wife and I as a result of my porn addiction. (She found me on the internet . . . a few days ago). After looking at various sites on the internet today regarding sex/ porn addiction I found your site and downloaded your book. It was like looking into a mirror when you described your feelings and thoughts and your candour and honesty has been VERY helpful in letting me see that I am not alone [in] the struggles I go through, yet that does not justify my behaviour. Your PRACTICAL and sometimes humourous pointers about how to start on the road to sobriety were a real eye opener to me. The down to earth style of the book and the feeling of not being 'preached at and condemned' for my failures, but instead just your sharing from the heart and showing that a fuller, more productive and meaningful life is possible for us all, was amazing. Today has become the start of a new life for me. One I want to be able to look back on with pride as I say with a clear conscience, 'I never use porn or masturbate now.' Thank you for helping me to reach that point."

Download “Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction” today. Don’t put it off any longer. A sober life is worth all the effort.

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If you have any difficulty receiving your book, please do not hesitate to write me at TenKeys@no-porn.com. I’ll be happy to help you any way I can.

~ Wes