Thank you!

Last Updated on Wednesday, 23 May 2012 01:45 Written by Wes Friday, 13 April 2012 10:27

I just want to offer my sincere thanks to all of our recent donors to the Support Forum. As always, the support forum is free. But recently, a number of you rallied to support this site by making significant financial contributions. I am still stunned by how quickly we met our goal and grateful for all the encouraging messages of support and gratitude that accompanied your gifts.

If you are new to the forum, welcome. Remember, there are others here who have walked the path ahead of you and who are eager to be of support to you, and to help you experience the joys (and pains) of sobriety.

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Just another day without porn.

Last Updated on Tuesday, 20 September 2011 01:39 Written by Wes Friday, 16 September 2011 01:43

Porn addiction loves a good sneak attack. It loves to lure you into thinking you’re all set. You’re past it. There is incredible power in the strategies outlined in Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction, but it is important to practice those strategies on a regular basis. The strategies aren’t time consuming or oppressive, but they outline a way of thinking about your addiction, and about who you are. That’s why the book starts out with the important key: You are not your addiction. But when we start to forget the strategies, and let old thinking patterns return, that’s when we start to find ourselves slipping. A little slip here, a little slip there. It may start with a stray thought about a classmate or colleague. Failing to recognize our addictive voice in that process is dangerous. That stray thought then begins to grow, perhaps slowly at first, until we experience an all out binge. One reason I find our free support forum so valuable is that it helps us remember every day to identify those thoughts that are fueled by our addiction. I find it so incredible that as soon as I acknowledge my addictive voice (“the Beast”), my addictive thinking retreats. So, this little post is just to help remind us all to keep up the sober thinking, and to recognize each pornographic thought and lust as your addictive voice, and to review frequently the principles in Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction.

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How to deal with your wife - A classic

Last Updated on Sunday, 17 April 2011 11:16 Written by Wes Sunday, 17 April 2011 11:16

I wanted to share a classic post from our free support board, which has been supporting people dealing with pornography addiction for over ten years. The post was originally written by the wife of an addict who went by “IAmBetrayed.” These days she is known as “KeepMovingForward” which is a reflection of her wonderful ability to grow as a person. Here is her post (just a note: SO stands for Significant Other).

OK, Guys -

After countless hours of talking with my husband, who is the love of my life, and also happens to be a PA, and after tons of reading and many, many, conversations with SOs in every different stage of grief and recovery, I am pleased to offer you

The Definitive Guide to How to Deal with your SO and
Have The Best Chance At Saving That Relationship!

The rest of the post and the many replies can be read by clicking here.

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